When Celeste and I married, we both changed our name to Sarvata, which means wholeness or integrity. It means that around us, you get to be exactly who you are.
Put another way, by Dave Rendall, author of the Freak Factor, everyone comes with side effects. Every strength has a corresponding weakness and they cannot be separated. Someone who is structured (strength) is also inflexible (weakness). One is a side effect of the other. What are your side effects?